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Monday, Aug. 24, 2026
Good morning to you! 

“No one is so inconsiderate as the person who wants you to listen when you want to talk.”

Mark Twain had a way of cutting straight to the bone. And if we’re being honest, we’ve all been the person he referenced — the one who is technically listening but mostly waiting for the other person to stop talking so he can get back to the important business of hearing himself.

The truth is, most of us aren’t very good listeners. We spend a sizable portion of our lives listening to other people, yet research suggests we listen with only about 20% efficiency. That’s not exactly a stellar report card. Part of the problem is that our brains are considerably faster than our mouths. We can listen and comprehend as many as 600 words a minute, while most people speak at about 200 words a minute. That leaves us with roughly 400 words a minute of spare mental bandwidth.

And what do we do with it? We daydream. We plan our response. We think about what we’re having for lunch. We notice the other person’s ugly shirt. We wonder if we left the garage door open. Basically, we do everything except listen.

Real listening isn’t simply sitting quietly while mentally composing our rebuttal. It isn’t waiting for a conversational opening so we can pounce. And it certainly isn’t keeping score so we can later point out every flaw in the other person’s argument. Listening means trying to see the world from the other person’s point of view. That requires empathy — not necessarily agreeing with someone, but making an effort to understand what they are experiencing.

I picked up the following listening tips from some training I took part in a few decades ago, and they still seem to apply today.

First, acknowledge the other person. A nod, a smile or a simple “uh-huh” says, “I’m with you. Keep going.”

Second, paraphrase. If someone gives you directions in an unfamiliar town, you repeat them to make sure you understood. Conversation works the same way. “So what you’re saying is …” can prevent a lot of misunderstandings and give your brain a moment to catch up.

Finally, ask questions. Good questions are door openers. Instead of questions that produce a yes or no, ask ones that encourage people to explain, elaborate and share.

The Greek philosopher Zeno of Citium, who founded Stoicism, may have said it best: “We have two ears and one mouth so we may listen more and talk less.” That sounds simple enough. But perhaps that’s the problem. Listening requires us to do something we increasingly struggle to do: Stop talking.

Maybe, just maybe, the next time someone wants us to listen, we should give them something increasingly rare — our full attention.

Have a memorable Monday, and thanks for reading.

Shane Goodman

President and Publisher
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FROM KCCI: Protesters in central Iowa challenge Flock cameras over privacy concerns. Protesters in Central Iowa are rallying against Flock cameras, citing privacy concerns and alleged violations of Fourth Amendment rights. Thursday evening's protest took place outside the Kwik Star between Altoona and Bondurant. A Flock camera is an automatic license plate reader that captures photos and video of vehicles. ... READ MORE

FROM WHO-TV: Iowa State Police cite, arrest 33 people during ‘801 Day’ festivities. Half of the nearly three dozen people arrested or cited during “801 Day” had no affiliation with Iowa State University, Iowa State Police say. The final Saturday before classes resume at Iowa State University is commonly known as “801 Day,” in reference to a rule that stated sororities and fraternities were not allowed to have alcohol until 8:01 a.m. the Saturday before classes began. ... READ MORE

FROM WOI: Search resumes for boater gone overboard in Des Moines River. First responders have resumed their search for a boater who went overboard Saturday evening in the Des Moines River. Around 6:45 p.m., PCSO deputies and personnel from multiple fire departments responded to reports that a boater had gone overboard and not resurfaced at an area of the river northwest of Highland Park. ... READ MORE

 
 

FROM AROUND THE WORLD: Iran’s rial currency hits new record low as US prepares to announce more sanctions. Iran’s currency hit a record low Monday as Washington prepared to announce new sanctions it said would add further pressure on an economy already battered by previous sanctions and a U.S. naval blockade. ... READ MORE

FROM AROUND THE NATION: Fast-moving wildfire amid shifting winds threatens Reno, Nevada, forcing thousands to evacuate. A fast-moving wildfire that jumped over fire trucks and made it difficult for crews to reach hot spots destroyed homes in northwest Reno, Nevada, on Sunday. Shifting winds challenged firefighters trying to bring it under control, and authorities urged some 90,000 people to evacuate. ... READ MORE

FROM AROUND THE STATE: Iowa skydiver critically injured in Marion County crash. An Iowa skydiver is in critical condition after crashing into a field in Marion County on Saturday morning, officials said. The crash occurred just before 11:30 a.m. near Highway 14 and 130th Street. Officials said paramedics initially had trouble accessing the rural location but were eventually able to reach the injured skydiver. ... READ MORE

 
Weather forecast
Monday, August 24
 
Cloudy
High: 79
Low: 65
Rain chance: 20%
Tuesday, August 25
 

Mostly cloudy
High: 84
Low: 68
Rain chance: 20%

Wednesday, August 26
 

Mostly sunny
High: 85
Low: 64
Rain chance: 0%

 
Allergy alert
 
Today: 10.1, high range
 
Top allergens:
Nettle
Chenopods
Ragweed
 
 
The 2026 results: CITYVIEW's Best of Des Moines®
 
 
Best Local Nonprofit
1. Animal Rescue League of Iowa
2. ChildServe
3. Many Hands Thrift Market
 
See all of the results
 
 

Back to the Biz
President Trump said Friday he will temporarily allow up to 300,000 metric tons of ground beef to be imported into the U.S. without paying higher tariffs. He added that he secured commitments that this beef, about 3% of U.S. consumption annually, will be sold at 25% discounts from current prices.

Casey’s bought the family-owned Pak-a-Sak chain of Texas.
 
Lux-Modern Asian Gastro opened just off I-80 on Grand Prairie Parkway in Waukee. The restaurant pushes the bar upwards on the high end Asian dining experience with craft cocktails and wood-grilled steaks.
 
Red Anchor Sushi & Seafood Buffet opened on Adventureland Drive in Altoona.
Yemnella, Iowa's first Yemeni coffee shop, is coming soon to Jordan Creek Parkway. Yemeni is expensive coffee and comes from heirloom beans that might be the OG coffee. High altitude growth and sun-drenching processes are also unusual.

After 14 years, Papa Kerns Cafe permanently closed and will not be reopening after the fair.

Hoang Khao, a Lao and Thai cuisine restaurant, opened on Oralabor Road, Ankeny.

Deals today
• Guesthouse Tavern + Oyster (9500 University, West Des Moines) offers all-day happy hour prices Mondays. 
 
• High Life Lounge (200 S.W. Second St., downtown) has a Monday special tater casserole for $8.99.
 
• Fong's Pizza offers a free crab Rangoon with a pizza Mondays.
 
 Food Truck Mall Mondays, 4-7 p.m., held at 5299 East University Ave., Pleasant Hill.
 
• Fresh Thyme (2800 University Ave., West Des Moines) has $6 quarts of prepared soup on Mondays. 
 
The Empire's (223 Fourth St., Des Moines) Monday special is spaghetti Alfredo with grilled chicken for $10.
 
Marianna's (1305 University Ave., Des Moines) offers carnitas tacos for $2 Mondays.
 
• Centro (1003 Locust St., Des Moines) offers half-price pizza and Peronis on Monday.
 
• Cowboy (1234 E Euclid Ave., Des Moines) has a Monday special fajitas lunch for $11.99.
 
• The False Nine Social Club (206 Fifth St., Valley Junction) has British pies on sale Mondays for $10.
 
District 36 (1375 S.W. Vintage Parkway, Ankeny) has a Monday special $60 dinner for two. Two entrees starring sea bass and NY strip de Burgo with soup or salads, a bottle of wine and a dessert to share. 
 
• The Key (360 Sixth St., Waukee) offers a half-pound sirloin dinner for $19 Mondays 5 p.m. till sold out.
 
• Today is bang bang shrimp day at Sale Barn Cafe (Lamoni).
 
• It's catfish night at Waterfront stores. Dinners cooked any way you like it for $19.99.
 
• It's Meat Loaf Monday at Mickey's in Yale.
 
 Chuck's (3610 Sixth Ave.) Monday special is three for $25 on all appetizers.
 
•  Bubba (200 10th St., Des Moines) has a Monday night sirloin dinner special for $20. 
 
• Kelly's Little Nipper (1701 E. Grand Ave., Des Moines) offers a "Monday grind" special grinder and fries basket for $9.50.
 
• Monday brings prime rib specials to both Chicago Speakeasy (1520 Euclid Ave., Des Moines) and Christopher's (2816 Beaver Ave., Des Moines).
 
• Trostel's Greenbriar (Merle Hay Road, Johnston) has a Monday burger with a side and beer deal for $14.   
 
• Beaver Tap (4050 Urbandale Ave., Des Moines) has $8 omelets and $10 hot beef sandwiches or Mexican bowls on Mondays.
 
• Johnny's Italian Steakhouses have a chicken de Burgo special on Mondays before 4 p.m., $14 including beverage.
 
Smoking Goat Pub (3015 Merle Hay Road, Des Moines) hosts Shelby Smokehouse Soul Food on Mondays, 5-9 p.m.
 
• G Mig's (126 Fifth St., Valley Junction) has $11 smashburgers today including a side.
 
• The Station on Ingersoll (3124 Ingersoll, Des Moines) has a Monday special Graziano grinder with a side for $12.
 
 The Continental (407 E. Fifth St., Des Moines) offers a Monday special double smash burger and shoestring fries, $12.
 
• Jethro's have a Monday chicken tenders and fries special $9.95 in Altoona and West Des Moines.
 
Angry Goldfish (2301 S.W. Ninth St., Des Moines) has specials on chicken Parmesan and lasagna today, $15 with garlic bread and salad.
 
Eastside Eddie’s (3517 E. 26th St., Des Moines) Monday special is a burger with domestic beer, soft drink or well drink for $10.  
 
• Pelican Post (265 50th St., West Des Moines) has a special today on hot beef sandwiches, $10.95 all day. 
 
• Tito’s Lounge (3916 Urbandale Drive, Urbandale) offers all-you-can-eat wings Mondays. 
 
• Johnny's Hall of Fame (302 Court Ave., Des Moines) has $12 burger baskets on Mondays and Fridays.
 
• Urban Cellars (640 S. 50th St., West Des Moines) offers $60 wine dinners for two on Mondays including two entrees with soup or salad, a dessert and a bottle of wine. 
 
• Club 2000 (422 Indianola Road, Des Moines) has a burger basket with fries deal Mondays for $9. 
 
• Red Lobster's Monday special is lobster and shrimp scampi with a side for $20. 
 
• Paula's (524 Elm St., Valley Junction) has a Monday special loaded chicken on a croissant sandwich for $14. 
 
• Destination Grille (2491 E. First St., Grimes) has a Monday steak night special, sirloins and truffle fries for $18.
 
• Price Chopper delis offer two-piece, bone-in fried chicken dinners with two sides and a roll for $8 on Mondays. 

• Fareways have specials through Saturday on pork tenderloins at $2.99/pound, head lettuce peppers at $1.77 and Iowa sweet corn at $5/dozen.

— Jim Duncan, jd91446@aol.com

 
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Pushing the right buttons

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Parker Posey, a beagle mix, lets her owner, Sascha Crasnow, know when she’s hungry. But not by traditional means of barking or knocking a food bowl around.

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Sports headlines
FROM ESPN: Dae'Quan Wright to be waived by Browns, set to join LSU. The Cleveland Browns are waiving tight end Dae'Quan Wright, who has an agreement in place for the 2026 season to play for LSU if he clears waivers, agents Drew Rosenhaus and Kyle Lincoln told ESPN's Adam Schefter on Sunday. ... READ MORE
 
FROM SPORTS ILLUSTRATED: The J.J. McCarthy concerns aren’t going away after another rough preseason showing. After Kyler Murray started the Vikings’ first preseason game, J.J. McCarthy got the start on Saturday and saw extended action playing during Minnesota’s second exhibition contest against the Ravens. It didn’t exactly help his case. ... READ MORE
 
FROM YAHOO SPORTS: Chinese robot beats Usain Bolt's 100-meter world record, sprinting in 9.39 seconds at World Humanoid Robot Games. In the battle between humans and robots, the robots scored a victory — in the 100-meter sprint, that is — breaking a record set by a legendary Olympic sprinter. At the World Humanoid Robot Games in Beijing on Saturday, a two-legged machine built by Chinese-backed tech company X-Humanoid finished the 100-meter race in 9.39 seconds. ... READ MORE
 
 

79 A.D.: Mount Vesuvius erupts. On Aug. 24, after centuries of dormancy, Mount Vesuvius erupts in southern Italy, devastating the prosperous Roman cities of Pompeii and Herculaneum and killing thousands. The cities, buried under a thick layer of volcanic material and mud, were never rebuilt and largely forgotten in the course of history. In the 18th century, Pompeii and Herculaneum were rediscovered and excavated, providing an unprecedented archaeological record of the everyday life of an ancient civilization, startlingly preserved in sudden death. … READ MORE

1814: British troops set fire to the White House. On Aug. 24, 1814, during the War of 1812 between the United States and England, British troops enter Washington, D.C. and burn the White House in retaliation for the American attack on the city of York in Ontario, Canada, in June 1813. … READ MORE

2006: Pluto is demoted. In Prague on Aug. 24, 2006, the International Astronomical Union votes to demote Pluto from the ninth planet from the Sun to one of dozens of known dwarf planets. … READ MORE

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These celebrities were born on this date: Rupert Grint, Vince McMahon, Dave Chappelle, Justine Skye, Alex O'Loughlin, Reggie Miller, Marlee Matlin
 
Historical birthdays
1750 Letizia Ramolino, Italian noble and mother of Napoleon Bonaparte, born in Ajaccio, France (d. 1836)
 
1759: William Wilberforce, English politician and leader of the movement to abolish the slave trade
 
1787 James Weddell, British sailor and Antarctic explorer (Weddell Sea), born in Ostend, Belgium (d. 1834)
 
Morning chuckle

The answer to the last riddle: H20 is water, but what is H204? SWIMMING, DRINKING, WASHING, ETC.! Irving Stone, Anne Lentz, Gail Tomlinson, Donna Willems. Or, Water4rd (Waterford) crystal! - Carolyn Rogers

Today's riddle:  Who carries out operations in water?

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